Deciding whether to become a surrogate is a personal decision that requires careful consideration! Many Surrogates say that once they started to seriously consider being a surrogate for another family, they couldn’t get the thought out of their head. It was a calling- one they felt they had to answer.
We’d love to provide you with additional information on what it means to be a Surrogate, so that you can make an informed decision if Surrogacy is right for you.
Here are a few things to consider when making your decision:
- Your own health: You should be in good health, have a BMI within the recommended range, and have had at least one successful uncomplicated pregnancy and delivery.
- The process: You should be aware of the surrogacy process, including the medications, procedures, and potential risks and benefits.
- Emotional and psychological considerations: Being a surrogate can be emotionally and psychologically demanding. It’s important to consider how you might feel about the process and the potential emotional impact on you and your family.
- Legal and ethical considerations: You should be aware of the legal and ethical considerations of surrogacy, including your rights and responsibilities as a surrogate.
- Your motivation: It’s important to consider why you want to become a surrogate. Some surrogates may be motivated by a desire to help others, while others may be motivated by financial compensation. Oftentimes it is a combination of both – you are compensated for your involvement in this incredible journey!
- Your support system: It’s important to have a strong support system in place, including a supportive partner, friends, and family members.
- The intended parents: It’s important to have good communication and relationship with the intended parents. We will do our best to match you with Intended Parents that share the same expectations on what this looks like during (and after!) the pregnancy.
It’s also important to talk with your partner, friends, and family members before making a decision. It’s also important to keep in mind that you should never feel pressured to be a surrogate!
