Writing your Dear Surrogate Letter
Exploring a Match
Surrogacy is a beautiful journey, but it’s important to remember that surrogacy is a two-way street. Surrogates have just as much say in the type of match they are looking for as the intended parents do. At our surrogacy agency, we take pride in facilitating successful matches. We understand the importance of finding the right match for both parties. It is crucial to connect intended parents and surrogates who share the same philosophies on pregnancy.
Preferences such as marital status, location, and level of communication, are carefully considered to ensure a harmonious match. Our matching process is thorough and designed to create a successful match. Both parties will have a chance to review each other’s profiles. If both parties are interested, we will share the surrogate’s medical records with your IVF clinic. Once we have the clinic’s approval, we’ll proceed with scheduling a match call over Zoom. This will give all parties a chance to meet before officially confirming the match.
Presenting Your Story
Your first introduction to your surrogate will be through her detailed profile, which includes information on her family, lifestyle, pregnancies, occupation, and photos. Intended parents also provide a one-page letter introducing themselves to the surrogate. This is a chance to share more information about yourselves and your family members, including pets. Introduce yourselves. Talk about where you live and the things you love to do. Share the journey that led you to surrogacy. Remember to include photos! Think of all of the information you would love to see in a surrogate profile, as she is also curious about the intended parents she will potentially start her journey with.
Finding the right surrogate may seem daunting, but with the help of an agency and careful consideration of preferences, intended parents and surrogates can form a successful partnership. Surrogacy is a journey rooted in trust, mutual respect, and open communication. When both parties are in sync, it creates a supportive and positive environment for the surrogate, intended parents, and, ultimately, the baby.
Want to learn more about Surrogacy? Check out our Blog for helpful information about your surrogacy journey!
Ready to get started? Register today to gain access to our Surrogate Database, where you can expect to begin seeing profiles in as little as 2-3 weeks.




